I just want to post a special thanks to my good friend Jason Mc'Ghee for talking to me tonight.
My problems with Sam have been killing me tonight and him helping me through it has been great.
The hardest part bout this wasn't telling my Family, it was telling my friends and tonight you've eliminated that fear. Thank you.
All Love,
MaMa Mindi
...you need your family first and foremost... tell them everything... have a talk with them... besides, it's your family... they won't let you down...
ReplyDelete...your problems with your husband, Sam, is no stranger to anyone... there are many who went in the same scenario... believe me, it's normal... it's the usual thing that happens when once teens have been involved in what we called 'premarital sex'....
..definitely, your husband is in the process of adjustments and acceptance of the things he never really expected/thought would come suddenly in just a snap of a finger...
...to have a baby is a big blessing more than a responsibility/dilemma... but the thing here is, your husband weighs the matter as a big responsibility to hold on firm rather than a blessing... and that shouldn't be his mindset... besides, he did it... you both did it... and therefore you must be proud of it... be glad of its coming... but unfortunately, your husband acts like a child... he became immature of the situation... he tends to rebel... for what??? maybe he thought, if he continue acting his way time may come you'll give up with him and set him free and then he can escape his responsibility.. and you, in total burden... no! 'NO!'
...don't you ever give up with him... co'z your baby needs a father... your husband needs a constant talk... a motivation... an inspiration... he needed someone who can give him the understanding he deserve... and that someone is you Mindi.... your love, care and understanding for him is greater than what any person may give.... a salute you for your courage towards everything... for letting yourself keep that baby in you.... for protecting your baby against your husband's bad intent... it only shows, you're maturing knowing you're only 17... i'm only 2 years older than you and not an expert in giving advice... i just can't take not to react or even say somethin' 'bout your situation when i came here and started to read your posts... you touches me with you kind and brave heart Mindi... you really do...
...trials don't come to make us fall, but for us to look for GOD and call... trials don't serve as key to hate, but rather doors to greater faith... have faith Mindi... pray and have call to HIM... HE'll listen... time will come your husband will realize all his misses... just have patience and understand... it may be tough for now but i know and i can feel everything will be alright..
GOOD LUCK MINDI! i'll be prayin' for you and your husband...^^
GOD BLESS!!!:)
>Kelvin